Irony of all ironies is that someone threatened a distortion campaign about my posts on distortion campaigns and my work with the victims of them and even a few people who had perpetrated them…( this person was not a client of mine but they had been told of some results achieved by clients )

Their premise was that because they are often referred to as “BPD Distortion Campaigns” that I was implying my work can heal BPD – even though that article made it clear that my work is Metaphysical and deals with people’s energy and emotions, I don’t have anything to do with physiological illness i.e body or brain or “mind” …

BPD is a physiological / psychological diagnosis – but the point is that there are states of spiritual energetic imbalance that are non physiological in nature but that can cause a person to go so far out of balance that they will exhibit exactly the same traits and behaviors as someone with “BPD” and to commit distortion campaigns. And indeed the imbalance will create a corresponding imbalance in body chemistry for a period of time until the energy balance is restored..

Take for example the practice of Kundalini – something that’s based on a principle called “upward energy”, bringing what Kundalini people refer to as “kundalini energy” upward through the energy pathways in a burst.. Although energy can burst like this naturally ( but we don’t refer to it as Kundalini ) it is extremely dangerous to practice doing it to the level and extent that Kundalini practices recommend, and is documented to have caused many cases of psychosis and breakdown… ( just web search for Kundalini and psychosis there is a lot of information )

Although this example is where people do it deliberately, there are many more situations that are not deliberate but where the energetic imbalance can cause extreme reactions in people with no underlying physiological symptoms or predisposition.

And so my articles was explaining that some cases are no doubt purely physiological i.e. medical / psychological or “mental illness” as its called, some aren’t. Therefore to call them all BPD distortion campaigns would not be appropriate.

The energetic ones can be remedied using metaphysics and the physiological ones using drugs and conventional medicine and some will require both. Energy work cant cure BPD and physiological medicine cant remedy energy imbalance.

We have to look at people as complete systems, not just a bag of meat and chemicals with a brain.. Always go get medical help first.. always.. And then choose what you want to do about energetic balance. Ive always taken that approach and nothing has changed.

BUT BACK TO DISTORTION CAMPAIGNS

- which I am not going to refer to as BPD Distortion campaigns as that would be technically inaccurate and, as I have learned be used to try to prove I’m saying something I’m not…

So if you’re a concerned relative, the energy work I teach is 100% natural, is not telling anyone what to believe, is not being represented as an alternative to anything and it gives the client the power and the control to use it…They are being trained how to use it to help themselves…

It’s not “weird”, it’s not a cult, they are not believing in anything but their power to aid their own spiritual healing BUT I am not their Mommy, I can’t make them do it nor can I make them see a doctor. I will always ask them to in every case to have got checked out medically, my agreements have many clauses about having medical, psychological and family support and an agreement that they undertake to use the techniques responsibly.. I also say in my agreements that i will cancel any sessions if I witness erratic behavior or have any concerns or if they work outside of the techniques or boundaries … I will support you as a relative if you have concerns but don’t start making it my problem if they wont do what you want, I have to respect the wishes of clients within that framework..

Personal Experience

I have suffered a distortion campaign and been enlightened to the utterly devastating effects of them.. And if you haven’t had one i mean DEVASTATING !. They aren’t devastating to me now because I know how to deal with them and use the techniques I’m talking about to stay balanced while I deal with them..

But lets be clear most distortion campaigns are cruel in the extreme and seek to inflict the maximum damage to the victim..

You will be shocked to the core how someone can say and do such things and be assured they will be not be close to the truth, not distorted truth, not mostly untruthful, they will be the exact opposite of the truth….

If you knew someone for a long time and helped them out by giving their dog a treat now and again and perhaps lent the person a few bucks to get bye – then be assured that a story of how you used the treats and money to deliberately suck them into your evil plan to horribly exploit them will be cooked up and liberally distributed…

The alleged reason for the distortion campaign will be that to most people you seem a nice person but this “victim” of yours, through their deep intellect and insight has managed to get to see you as you really are and feels obligated to show the world what a monster you are.. They aren’t doing it for themselves they are doing it to help others avoid the same treatment !!

Recruiting

Don’t be surprised if people close to you have been befriended by your abuser, and it is an attempt to appear as a victim and harmless and “I know he’s a friend of yours and I didn’t want to say anything but perhaps you should know…”

Dealing with it

There is a lot of advise about dealing with campaigns and I’m not suggesting there is a best one.. but my suggestions are..

1. Drag the truth out into the open, do it all in plain sight – the perpetrators work behind people’s backs.

2. Give facts never opinions, your abuser is manipulating perception not using facts.. Just state your case calmly giving facts and don’t get into argument or substantiate the claims, dismiss the claims.. Do it as publically as you can then their “behind closed doors” tactics won’t work as well.

3. Some people will believe the things said about you.. Its going to happen, its human nature so accept it and don’t try to change their minds just present the facts. people’s objectivity is not your responsibility, don’t let it be.. some people don’t want to work on facts and so leave them behind as they are not healthy for themselves or you…

4. Don’t respond to further accusations, don’t feed the drama. There will be no limit to the accusations, its likely the person will try anything to illicit a response..

5. Get some support from family / friends if they haven’t been sucked in

And when you are ready…this is where the metaphysical stuff comes in.. The emotional trauma can be helped by learning some energy work and meditation but clear for anything physical with your doctor first.

Back in my days in media I learned that good directors and camera operators know how to tell a story with the framing of the shot.

Unlike most home videos which crash zoom into the action and pan around – the professionals won’t – they’ll hang back and let the action happen in the wider frame as the people relate to the context of their surroundings.

As the story unfolds and we see the interactions of all our players from this wider perspective, it only zooms in when they want us to experience emotional intensity.. The zoom removes the context and closes in on one thing, one gradually intensifying experience as nothing else around matters anymore…

And this is a perfect metaphor for why we can’t be healthy or take healthy actions when we are too emotional and too zoomed to the one singular emotional focus..
Spiritual balance isn’t about intensifying the experience, its about learning to flow with that emotional experience, how to process it within ourselves so we can emotionally detach and zoom out to a healthy place and start to see the whole scene again..

A lot of western spirituality validates the intensity of emotional experience as something to be desired or sought after – its gushing not flowing, its crazily zoomed in not zoomed out, its obsessive not objective… The deal is learning to re-balance with increasing levels of emotional experience as we grow, but always returning to the wide shot so that we can see perspective and be healthy for ourselves and those around us..

So to answer the question, energy work is the only work that removes residual emotions and objectivity is the only place we can maintain the balance.. These are not important they are the only thing, so all stems from them, and always have and they are the foundation of the deepest and most respected of the spiritual traditions.

If you want to know more email me steve@stevegunn.net or pop by my websites.. http://stevegunn.net/ – http://healmyenergy.com/

Nobody healed from a book but millions think we have and more importantly would like to think we have…which is why one book is never enough and one quote is never enough…enter facebook stage left to feed that addiction with quote for the day, thought for the day, astrology for the day…..

Why am I there too ? I’m like a Salvation Army person in a drinking den trying to recruit people to the disciplines

What we refer to as ‘understanding’ comes from a framework based on the idea that we live in a physical universe and the ‘logic’ we apply to everything is based upon simple principles of physical cause and effect on a linear frame we call time..

Thus from this perspective, we will never be able to see these things as they are .. It is only when we have abandoned the context we have been taught, and can start to come from a context of cycles of events not lines of time, of interplay of forces not single events, of multiple levels but without hierarchy, and of all things being part of one, not seperate connected elements, that we can even start that journey..

What frustrates more people than anything else is when I tell them that I can explain what they want to know, and i can explain it completely, BUT i can’t explain it in the context they’ve asked it, I can’t plug it into their understanding, instead I need to teach them the context that their universe uses and THEN it will be obvious..

It is this issue that is at the core of what we refer to generically as the ‘ego death’ process or massive unlearning, that is a bridge we must cross on the path to oneness with our universe.. THEN we not only see the miracles but become aligned with them.

It is also responsible for the extreme polarization that people display to what is the exact same approach. if we are too deep into ego we resent that we can’t learn in the context we want and choose, if we are ready to really learn we don’t mind losing that context even thought it’s not easy..

1. Yes I do set myself up as an expert on things because I am ridiculously arrogant, it is not that I have done lots of work over the years thats been noticed and recognized from the results.

2. Yes I am extremely rude and don’t want to work with you as some sort of personal slur which gives me great delight… it is not that my work does not offer what you tell me you want so I politely tell you I can’t help you.

3. The fact that I publish a code of practice, an FAQ and ask you to read a document about my work so that you understand the context, is not to avoid you misunderstanding and being disappointed that I am not a mystical type psychic or fortune teller because I respect you and want you to be sure you get what you want, , its to piss you off.

4. The “objective” in objective metaphysics is not about objectivity and respecting that as the ultimate form of professionalism, its to hurt your feelings and not agree with your own ideas and to demonstrate how much I know and how much you don’t

5. I have a confidentiality agreement against either of us publishing what the other said because I have to hide my sinister secrets not because its professional and respectful and of course totally mutual and fair.

6. When I suggest doing any energy work I deliberately suggest you don’t make a choice there and then, and I tell you to look around, and to use your instincts which one to go with all as a cunning ploy to sell you only my system.

7. Even though I don’t and never have specialized in soul connections don’t let that fool you, I naturally only do that work and all the other articles and courses and services are there as a trick.

8. Even though a vast majority of people have found peace and happiness both with and without the person they are focused on via using my work, I am only there for when you want to get over someone..

9. Despite the fact that I never have and never will name call, judge or bitch about people in forums, don’t let that fool you, its all part of the cunning plan…and you calling me nasty names and implying all sorts of things from incompetence through to God knows what sort of arrogance must be true right ?

10. Despite the fact that my work receives much appreciation, it is better to focus on the few who don’t like it and suggest thats the majority.

You don’t have to like me, you don’t have to like my work, you don’t even have to agree with it.. These sort of little forum frenzies aren’t untypical and they are to be expected now and again BUT  but facts and fairness are the minimum anyone should expect – especially when you are publishing it on the web.

Glad I was able to shed light on it

May you all find love, light and above all objectivity..

It is not knowing ourselves, liking ourselves, loving ourselves because there is only one self and the idea of it loving itself or liking itself is ludicrous.. There is just one self and we do not seek to in anyway integrate this ego that likes or dislikes or judges us because it is not us.

Oneness has no element of knowing anything, nothing conceptual, no words, no symbolism, no icons and no thoughts, it is a state of flow of energy only and all the symbolism is a function of the ego needing to attach icons and concepts..

Oneness has never been achieved from reading anything or being told anything because it has no conceptual elements, that is just the ego needing to attach concepts to what is non conceptual and thats why we cant ever achieve oneness as long as we think we can “get” it…

It is something one is trained to achieved not taught to achieve. We can not do it ourselves because even the idea that we can stand back from our ego is itself a concept and thus creates a paradox.. It can only be trained but it can not be trained by any disciplines that require you to believe anything..

Oneness can not be achieved by anyone else “healing” you, it can only be achieved by learning the right processes and doing it yourself..

This has been proven and proven and proven and proven and proven and there is no lack of evidence over hundreds and thousands of years .. But what that evidence will never do is influence the ego which wants to personalize, attach, have it its way, make it “my path is different” or “to me it means this” or “I need to understand” etc because the ego wasn’t, isn’t and never will be objective and so no world of proof, no universe of proof will influence it against what it wants to see..

Oneness is a state that is the same for all, it is what unites us and our universe, whereas pop spirituality is vested in feeding the ego of “my path is different”. Only situations are different and situations are physical, the spiritual path is about states of energy not situations.. it lives in the one truth, the one meaning and the one state of alignment with the universe, hence oneness..

My apologies to ‘pick and mix’ spirituality and pop psychology, its not personal.

All physical things respond in synchronicity to these energy cycles. The positions of the planets for example. The planets don’t directly influence you, they just also are in synch with the same universal cycles hence there’s a correlation we can observe.

The cycles of nature, your own physiological cycles, all things respond to these energies and most living things will remain in harmony, in resonance with them..
including your intuition, which is your energies sensing the universal energies and those of other living things..

However, mankind has developed a purely physical “intelligence” that of the ego – the brain is a physical object that cannot sense your energies and thus it is detached from your intuition and thus has developed concepts based on the Boolean logic of cause and effect on the physical plane. For example this ego ignores the never ending cycles and creates an imaginary line called “time” that is not cyclical.. this is based upon the physical life of a person, because the ego only looks at the single physical aspect of our life cycle… Thus man develops belief instead of observation, and he has indeed lost the ability to observe outside the framework of his own ego,

Thus the orchestra is playing in A minor and the ego in D flat. We are not resonant with the natural cycles, have lost much of the magic and power we used to understand and have access to long ago and instead develop physical technologies then wonder how they built the pyramids, and think “it can only be technologies right ????” because we no longer have access to the most powerful forces in the universe.

The ability to reconnect is now firmly behind a barrier called “belief”, the new God of ego that decides and judges everything even the universal processes.. in other words these process don’t exist unless we can measure them on a physical instrument. But DUH you can’t because they are not on the physical plane they simply affect the physical plane..

Teaching people to escape the ego and work with their energy produces a WOW ever day.. every day we achieve things the person didn’t think possible and that cannot be explained by ‘convention” and I mean every day, not just now and then.. The magic is here its within you and around you and it happens all the time. you just need to learn how to reconnect.. This is my work, its what i do and its the most challenging and rewarding…

So for all the people calling “ascension”, leave it a few hundred years please, this species is still looking the wrong way down the telescope and still thinking the answer is a particle.

11th March 2013

Thank you to all who have emailed about the book – I now have an update.

I have discovered that my book is now out of print.

As it was written ten years ago there is a disconnect with how many of the terms are used nowadays. For instance when the book was written people were calling soul connections of all types generically “soul connections” which is metaphysically not misleading whereas in the past few years they are now all referred to as twin souls – but which is often very misleading…

In addition a lot of mythology has come in via the web such as the idea that twin souls don’t have karma to clear and many other things that are simply not metaphysically accurate, are not reflected in everything we know about universal law, are not shown in the research nor the case studies carried out over many many years.. Because these things weren’t around in popular culture when the book was written, it doesn’t address them and as such it is now out of date, not in what it says, which is still born out by the evidence – but in needing to address so much more cultural mythology than was around when it was written a decade ago.

The whole point of the book was always as a primer – designed to address the actual experience in relationship and expectations terms ( the only thing I’ve written that ever did talk about the non metaphysical aspects ) and to build a bridge from there to the metaphysical aspects of soul connections and lead people on from there to want to learn more..

Although I will probably write a follow up version of the book it won’t be right away and my articles still produce the best introduction to the different subjects and I will continue to update them and they will be solid and based on the work not myth or belief and with info and case studies to back them up as always, and despite the fast swinging tides of popular belief and mythology..

In my work I continue to do consultations for people all over the world on all subjects including soul connections and that has always been and wiull always be my prime focus, guiding people one to one on their unique situations, needs and path.

Thank you to all who’ve bought the book over the years and who have worked with me, I am deeply thankful .

Steve Gunn
My articles http://stevegunn.net/wp_blog/

It doesn’t really work that way, only human brains work that way, because they process “reality” as an imaginary line called time along which are strung singular events one after another..

The universe works in terms of energies in cycles, large cycles, small cycles, any size of cycle you can imagine and cycles within cycles.. These cycles of energy influence living things, and it is in the way that living things react to these cycles of energies that create events, the universe does not directly create events as such..

And so any synchronistic signs relate to these cycles, not to specific events that may happen in a cycle..

Lets say for example someone is in a cycle where the universal forces are pressurizing them to change how they work emotionally..perhaps to be less judgmental of others.. The person is influenced by the universal energies in the cycle that brings this lesson because they come as emotions, sensations and intuition… ( these are all spiritual energies…) And from these influences their interactions with others will bring the lesson to the surface especially clearly at this time…

BUT it is not necessarily their individual interaction with John or Sue or Frank or Jim but the overall lesson of ALL their interactions at this time that bring the emotional issues to the surface to be recognized…

Any synchronistic signs, for example 11:11 are demonstrating the elements of duality, of cause and effect, of balance and symmetry or the need for it, of the duality of test and reward… flagging that this is a time of learning, that there can be more than one aspect to be taught a lesson and a lot of other things but none relating to actual individuals or specific events in the way the ego wants to see things.

If for instance we kept seeing the name “John” and our interaction with John is the one thats helping drag up our issues at the time, it is telling you that there is purpose to the interaction but instead the ego will project that there is purpose in John.

Thus there is not, and never was, a complexity of understanding in what destiny defines and if freewill overrides it or not because they both drive different things..

Likewise the universe wont force the person to address their judgment issues by a date or in a certain way ( events ) , the person themselves will choose how many of these cycles they need to encounter before they choose to, so again destiny sets the lessons and context and the forces but does not drive the actual events, these are created by the person reacting to the energies.

What I am explaining here is incredibly unpopular because ego’s WANT the universe to work in series of events, its so much easier to superimpose our ego functions onto the universe than to learn how she works.. As always the issue with convenient truth is that its convenient and least emotionally challenging but also leads to least growth..

In this last year I had a reminder of this when a project I was involved in was in danger of one of these situations and I had to work incredibly hard along with my business partner, to stop everyone losing..which very nearly happened..

In looking back its easy to apportion blame and ask why the person and their recruitees don’t see what they did ….but here’s the issue.. they do see it, it’s just much more convenient to paint a different interpretation on things an interpretation that makes other people the “bad guys”… and in observing this we see the trusty and reliable aspect of human behavior, projection. And so the complaints that the perpetrators lodge against everyone else, is exactly what they themselves are guilty of…

What upset people was the issue of “trust”, people commented “I trusted them why did they do this” and here’s what we must remember… In any group of humans you will get group dynamics. and in terms of group dynamics trust is not enough.. its too flimsy and can be derailed by one rogue… usually this ‘rogue’ will start by seeking to recruit and undermine, pointing out the ‘shortfalls’ of a colleague or boss and gaining sympathy..

Gradually reinforcing this they will pick their moments and then make ‘power plays’ to sway things their way… So what they’ve done is to try and divide and rule.. and often it works really well BECAUSE they understand human nature.,. often at an intuitive rather than intellectual level, but they know what hooks people in…

And so our lesson when in a group situation is to accept and understand the potential of humans in group dynamics and to make rules for the group that stop this happening.. The ‘trust’ thing isn’t strong enough… We need to be as wise to group dynamics as the ‘rogues’ are and understand that this is not even personal, its that when you get a group of people together, certain patterns are quite usual and to be expected.. and then in expecting them, we can derail them before they derail everything else…

A certain group of the recruitees I am sure don’t like me however I am very sure they know what they did or tried to do and thats fair enough, but we stopped them, and we had to because we can’t allow feeding our families to work on ‘trust’ in human behavior…

If there’s something to trust in human behavior its that this sort of thing will happen.. so be ready for it and be prepared to go to any lengths whatsoever to deal with it.. and don’t expect everyone to like you..